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Many people experience bouts of confidence issues throughout their lifetime. A lack of confidence can be debilitating to our self-esteem and lead to behaviours such as avoiding social contact, trying new activities, or negative thinking. This state of mind can also be detrimental to our overall well-being.<\/p>\n

As we get older, there can be an increased risk of low self-esteem<\/a> due to a change in appearance, loss of independence, health issues, or reduced mobility. Older adults can also have low self-esteem due to feeling disconnected from the rest of the world.<\/p>\n

When an elderly loved one develops a lack of confidence and begins to shut themselves in, we naturally want to lend a helping hand to help them regain their vitality.<\/p>\n

Here are seven steps you can take to help them regain their self-confidence.<\/p>\n

Ensure they practice good self-care<\/h2>\n

Having low self-esteem can cause someone to think they\u2019re not worth the effort to maintain good hygiene. However, as we all know, when we like the way we look, we feel better about ourselves.<\/p>\n

Gently encourage them to shower daily, brush their teeth, and wear clean clothes, even if they\u2019re not going anywhere that day. Feeling clean and comfortable can help lift one\u2019s opinion of themself.<\/p>\n

Let them wear clothes they love<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re never too old to be fashionable! Wearing clothes we feel confident in does wonders for our self-esteem. Putting a daily wardrobe together allows us to express ourselves and demonstrate our uniqueness, boosting self-confidence.<\/p>\n

Help your loved one put their look together for one day or plan their clothes for the week. Allow them to select bright patterns, bold colours, or something simple, so they feel in control. You can also help them accessorize with belts, jewelry, and more.<\/p>\n

Encourage them to keep moving<\/h2>\n

Staying active is one of the most crucial steps an older person can take to protect their mental and physical health<\/a>. Exercise alleviates stress and anxiety, boosts one\u2019s self of independence, and increases confidence. It also triggers dopamine, a naturally-occurring hormone that helps support memory, motivation, and many other crucial functions that contribute to overall well-being.<\/p>\n

Walking, hiking, and yoga are often done in groups, creating socialization opportunities that can help your loved one make new connections, improving their sense of self-worth.<\/p>\n

Inspire them to indulge in a favourite activity<\/h2>\n

Few things boost confidence like doing something we love! Encourage the person to pick up a favourite pursuit again, such as playing a musical instrument, baking yummy cookies, knitting, or photography.<\/p>\n

They can always start a new hobby, such as writing a book, yoga, or anything else they\u2019ve always dreamed of doing. There\u2019s no limit to what we can achieve once we put our minds to it, taking our confidence to new heights!<\/p>\n

Keep them connected with family and friends<\/h2>\n

When we suffer from low self-confidence, we might feel we add little value to other people\u2019s lives. Create opportunities for your loved one to be with family and friends to help remind them that people want to spend time with them. Enjoying the company of others will give them a fast and long-lasting burst of self-esteem.<\/p>\n

If their circle of friends is small, suggest that they join clubs or senior groups so they can develop new meaningful relationships.<\/p>\n

Connect them with volunteer opportunities<\/h2>\n

Doing good work in your community benefits others and helps you feel you\u2019re accomplishing something positive. It also provides new opportunities to meet people who believe in the same causes you do, creating instant bonds and conversation points. Many older people work with animals, in hospitals, at charitable events, or as advocates for social causes<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Find out what\u2019s important to your loved one, and check for volunteer opportunities online<\/a>. The more relevant the cause is to the person, the more likely they\u2019ll commit to volunteering for it on a regular basis.<\/p>\n

Modify their home to help them maintain independence<\/h2>\n

Having difficulty navigating the home due can trigger a feeling of lost independence, leading to feelings of helplessness and a drop in self-confidence. The truth is that most older people will experience some reduction in mobility that can affect their ability to carry out daily activities of living (ADLs), such as bathing, housekeeping, or cooking.<\/p>\n

You can take steps to help the person regain their independence by making minor modifications to their home, such as:<\/p>\n